Speak Clearly
By Marty Edwards
While writing a sermon concerning the acts of worship, I inadvertently wrote the word "sinning" instead of "singing." Changing but one letter of the alphabet made a radical difference.
We all know how we can easily alter the meaning of our sentences by a single letter, a word added or omitted, emphasis placed on a particular word, etc. With our language varying so much by such subtle changes, it is of utmost importance that we speak clearly and precisely. I am not referring to the tonal quality of our voices or enunciation of words, albeit such clarity can prevent confusion. I am referring to our ability to communicate by clearly stating what we are intending to say. Never is this so important as when we are discussing the Bible.
Often people have been offended, and no doubt prospects for salvation have been lost, because of a misunderstanding due to words carelessly spoken that were misinterpreted. Someone's salvation could hinge upon the very words you choose to use and how you choose to say them.
Here are a few rules to help you better communicate whether you
are speaking with someone one on one or in a public assembly:
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Say what you mean. Do not hide the meaning of words with euphemisms. Granted, there may be gentler ways to express some ideas, but make sure that the choice of terminology is understood among your listeners. |
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| Do not be afraid to ask if the listener misunderstood or if there are any questions. Often people would like to ask for additional information, but are waiting for an opening from you. |
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| Do not try to speak above your audience. Anyone can look up large words in a dictionary and use them. Sometimes more detailed terms will be necessary, but to needlessly use them is offensive to the listeners and they often will not know what you are trying to say. |
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| Do not talk too fast. If a listener stumbles on a point because you are speaking too rapidly, much of what is said after that point is lost as well. |
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| Do not speak too softly. If your listener cannot hear you, then your words have done no good at all. |
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| Do not assume that your listener knows something and omit it. When it comes to a subject as important as one's salvation, do not assume. Make sure you know that they know. |
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| If you think what you are about to say might be offensive, then do not say it. Is it really necessary to say? |
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| Treat your words "mathematically." You can always add to or multiply your words, but you can never subtract or divide them. |
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| If you feel you absolutely must say something that you are in doubt of saying, sleep on it. You can still say it later, but you can never unsay it. |
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| Speak the truth in love. Never talk to someone in an angry tone. Make your words genuine and sincere. |
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